Hereâs a clip from last nightâs Late Night, where Seth Meyers welcomes back writers Amber Ruffin and Jenny Hagel to tell a round of âJokes Seth Canât Tellâ about lesbian songs, black Santas, slang terms for âlesbian,â the African American History Museum, and gay weddings: âSo Jenny, whatâs the biggest difference between a straight wedding and a gay wedding?â Meyers asks. âThe reason the parents are crying,â Hagel responds. Check out the full segment above.