Advice

personal finance 9/21/2023
Is ‘Scarcity Brain’ Making You Broke? Maybe. But here’s what you can do about it.
By Charlotte Cowles

career 9/19/2023
How to Find a Job Long-Distance There are ways to improve your chances of getting a response when applying to jobs out of state.
By Alison Green

advice 9/15/2023
‘How Do I Go On Without My Loved Ones?’ The most important thing your ancestors have given you is a heartbeat. Use it well.
By J.P. Brammer

personal finance 9/14/2023
‘I Earn More Than My Husband, But I Don’t Want to Pay More of Our Bills’ You can share household expenses in lots of ways, and you don’t have to choose just one.
By Charlotte Cowles

esther calling 9/11/2023
‘How Do I Stop Obsessing Over Having Had an Affair and Forgive Myself?’ Beating yourself up doesn’t solve anything, Esther Perel says. Instead, unpack why you had the affair in the first place and what you got from it.
By Esther Perel

advice 9/8/2023
‘What If No One Wants Me After I Transition?’ Being wanted feels great, but when it comes at the expense of your own needs, when it demands that you deny your true self, it stops being worth it.
By J.P. Brammer

personal finance 9/7/2023
Your Post-Vacation Guide to Cleaning Up Your Finances Experts share their best money advice for getting back on track.
By Charlotte Cowles

career 9/5/2023
‘I’m Sick of Covering for My Co-workers Who Have Kids’ The problem: Your colleagues’ flexibility is coming at your expense rather than the company’s expense.
By Alison Green

personal finance 8/31/2023
‘I’m So in Debt That I’m Afraid to Date’ You’re not undateable — you’re just afraid to talk about money. There’s a way to fix that.
By Charlotte Cowles

esther calling 8/28/2023
‘My Brother’s Wife Ruined Our Relationship’ No matter how close siblings are, Esther Perel says, they shouldn’t define what love is for each other as they grow older.
By Esther Perel
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