Sometimes, you just need to let loose at a Sabrina Carpenter concert with your girlfriends! Even if that girlfriend is just your 47-year-old male co-star. Selena Gomez did just that at the New York concert date for Sabrina Carpenterâs Short nâ Sweet tour, which SelGo attended with Ădgar RamĂrez and model Connar Franklin and not her boyfriend, Benny Blanco. In Blancoâs apparent absence, a video of her dancing up on a different man went viral â her Emilia PĂŠrez co-star RamĂrez. In a since-deleted (but certainly still findable) clip, the two are seen canoodling in a way that, sorry, is definitely not giving off the vibe that Gomez is cheating on her boyfriend. Yes, theyâre close, but they are clearly just girls having fun! People in the comments did not agree â because they are people who comment on TikToks, we assume â and seemed to imply she was cheating on Blanco. âOmg how dare I dance with my bestie,â Gomez posted on TikTok Stories in response. Literally, let them queen out.