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  1. sex diaries
    The 50-Year-Old Reconnecting With Her Summer-Camp CrushThis week’s sex diary.
  2. sex diaries
    The Publicist Sleeping With an Irish Guy She Met at the GymThis week’s sex diary.
  3. both sides of a breakup
    Both Sides of a Breakup: He Couldn’t Get Past the HerpesTwo exes explain why it ended.
  4. sex diaries
    The Southerner Stumbling Into Her First ThreesomeThis week’s sex diary.
  5. sex diaries
    The Queer Librarian Getting Paid for Feet PicsThis week’s sex diary.
  6. sex diaries
    The Bisexual Gardener Making Out With a Tattooed ChefThis week’s sex diary.
  7. sex diaries
    The Insomniac Tech Worker Juggling 4 WomenThis week’s sex diary.
  8. sex diaries
    The TV Writer Seeking Hot Sex While on StrikeThis week’s sex diary.
  9. sex diaries
    The Publicist Worried She Chases Men Too MuchThis week’s sex diary.
  10. both sides of a breakup
    Both Sides of a Breakup: She Started Sleeping With Her BossTwo exes explain why it ended.
  11. sex diaries
    The Nurse Planning a ‘Sexcation’ in the WildernessThis week’s sex diary.
  12. peak dupe
    “He Put a Dupe in a Little Blue Box” Four women on discovering their engagement rings were fake.
  13. sex diaries
    The Woman in an Open Marriage With a Gay ManThis week’s sex diary.
  14. sex diaries
    The Author Sleeping With a Not-Yet-Divorced DadThis week’s sex diary.
  15. sex diaries
    The Woman Tracking Her Berlin Sex Buddies in a SpreadsheetThis week’s sex diary.
  16. sex diaries
    The Paris-Based Designer Seeing a New Man Every NightThis week’s sex diary.
  17. both sides of a breakup
    Both Sides of a Breakup: She Got Pregnant on the First DateTwo exes explain why it ended.
  18. realtor diaries
    The Market for Disney Adults With Millions to Spend“I recently showed a house with 20 hidden Mickeys that came with a spreadsheet of where to find them.”
  19. sex diaries
    The Reality-TV Producer Sleeping With a Guitar PlayerThis week’s sex diary.
  20. sex diaries
    The Divorced Dad Prepping for His First Sex PartyThis week’s sex diary.
  21. sex diaries
    The Married Mom Having Sex on Her Friend’s Bachelorette TripThis week’s sex diary.
  22. sex diaries
    The Filmmaker Who Knows This Guy Is Probably Bad NewsThis week’s sex diary.
  23. sex diaries
    The Musician Sleeping With a Married WomanThis week’s sex diary.
  24. it’s over
    The First Great Date I Had After My DivorceSix women on the nights that made dating feel worth it again.
  25. divorce
    9 Women on the Moment They Knew Their Marriage Was Over“I found the receipt for the lingerie he’d bought her.”
  26. sex diaries
    The Guy Wondering Why He Got Blocked on GrindrThis week’s sex diary.
  27. sex diaries
    The 35-Year-Old Dating a Drummer With a Trust FundThis week’s sex diary.
  28. the grub street diet
    Chef Zahra Tangorra Wants Extra Sauce“Give me a ladle full of cold sauce on a paper plate and I might just marry you.”
  29. sex diaries
    The Woman Hitting on a Hot French Guy From Her Yoga ClassThis week’s sex diary.
  30. sex diaries
    The Woman Day Dreaming About the New Couple She Met on FeeldThis week’s sex diary.
  31. sex diaries
    The Restaurant Publicist Wondering If Her New Man Is ToxicThis week’s sex diary.
  32. sex diaries
    The Producer Who Thinks Secrets Are Okay in a MarriageThis week’s sex diary.
  33. sex diaries
    The College Student Who Gets Dumped for a Dance MajorThis week’s “Sex Diary.”
  34. realtor diaries
    The Atlanta Realtor Who Gets Her Advice From Arnold Schwarzenegger“He told me, ‘You need a brand.’ That’s what my cowboy hat and my nickname, ‘Rodeo,’ have become.”
  35. sex diaries
    The Tokyo Woman Flying to Milan for a Former Co-workerThis week’s sex diary.
  36. sex diaries
    The Creative Director Getting a Little Tired of FeeldThis week’s sex diary.
  37. sex diaries
    The 55-Year-Old Scheduling a Week of PlaydatesThis week’s sex diary.
  38. sex diaries
    The Content Creator Exploring Her Interest in RopesThis week’s sex diary.
  39. realtor diaries
    The Mexico City Realtor Selling Penthouses Without Bathrooms“They start around $6 million and have nothing in them — not even a floor or a toilet.”
  40. sex diaries
    The Woman Who Thinks She Has ‘Sexsomnia’This week’s sex diary.
  41. sex diaries
    The Married Dermatologist Having a Threesome in ConnecticutThis week’s sex diary.
  42. sex diaries
    The Freelancer Hoping She Can Satisfy Her Younger GirlfriendThis week’s sex diary.
  43. sex diaries
    The Publicist Wondering Who’s Calling His Boyfriend at NightThis week’s sex diary.
  44. sex diaries
    How I Get Strangers to Talk About Their Sex LivesTo write the Sex Diaries column every week, I stop people on the bus, ask my cashier at CVS, or even beg my next-door neighbors.
  45. sex diaries
    The Chef Kissing Her Ex Behind Her Boyfriend’s BackThis week’s sex diary.
  46. reasons to love new york
    New York Attracts the World’s Most Beautiful PeopleThe only person hotter than my doula and my barista? My mom’s doorman.
  47. sex diaries
    The Vermont Woman Who Blows Off Work for a Tinder DateThis week’s sex diary.
  48. sex diaries
    The Divorced Lawyer Who Loves Getting Ready for DatesThis week’s sex diary.
  49. sex diaries
    The Wine-Shop Worker Checking Out the Hot Delivery GuyThis week’s sex diary.
  50. sex diaries
    The Queens Woman Having Passionate Breakup SexThis week’s sex diary.
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