Here’s a clip from Patton Oswalt’s visit to last night’s Tonight Show, where he looks back on his unexpected Emmy win and how the grief from his wife’s passing has evolved from being somewhat predictable to completely surprising. “I was waiting for an app to update, and I don’t know why, but then I started crying thinking there’s apps on her phone that will never update again,†he says. “So now I’m like the Hulk of crying. I don’t know when I’m gonna Hulk out crying, it’ll be for nothing. Like I’ll get some dim sum and then just go ‘Dim sum…my life is actually dim!’ So…it just sucks.â€