Well, here we go again: Not only does Spike Jonze’s Her feature Joaquin Phoenix falling in love with a computer (as voiced by Scarlett Johansson); Amy Adams in a truly tragic wig; flashbacks to Rooney Mara frolicking in the sunshine with a baby; and the overwhelming sense that no matter how much you love someone, you can never hold on to him or her. It also features a score by Arcade Fire (squint at the credits). You know what Spike Jonze + Arcade Fire means. (It means tears.)